SARAH HINES
Who is this for?
I work with those who lead companies, carry teams, stand on the frontlines, and wear the uniform. People who know how to endure, yet carry the weight of grief and loss, and are searching for what legacy will remain. I do this in two ways: through private conversations that help individuals reckon with what they carry, and through advising organizations on how to face grief, loss, and bereavement with courage and care.
THE
LODGE MISSION
You gave your strength to the job.
To the mission.
To the people who needed you.
Now it's time to remember who the fuck you are.
This work exists for what came after to reclaim what got lost in the doing. We help you make sense of the cost, to remember what still matters, and to build a legacy that holds all of it. The weight. The worth. The man behind it all.
MESSY AND ALIVE
You’ve held the line. You’ve buried the weight. This isn’t therapy. It’s a place to put down what no one else saw you carry—and walk out remembering who you are.
THE COST
Silence kept you alive. So did grit. They carried you through when nothing else would. But they also cost you.
It is not only about what you witnessed. It is about who you had to become in order to survive it. The hardness that set in. The distance you created. The parts of yourself you buried so deeply they almost disappeared.
This is the space to turn toward it. To name what you had to carry. To see what was strength, what was sacrifice, and what has been dragging behind you long enough.
And then to decide, with clarity, what you are still willing to carry forward.
THE WORK
This isn’t therapy. It’s reckoning.
You don’t need fixing. What you need is congruence. To live in a way that matches what you value, what you desire, and what you know to be true.
This work is about turning burdens into blueprints. The patterns that held you together can be redrawn into structures that carry you forward. The silence you have lived with becomes direction. The defenses you built become foundations.
We do not stay in the story of what happened to you. We stand in the raw material of it, and we ask: What are you building from here?
Because what you build from it will outlast you. That is the work.
THE LEGACY
Legacy asks different questions:
What values will outlive you?
What strength will be remembered?
What part of your story still belongs in the future?
This is not about what broke you. It’s about what you choose, deliberately, to place in the hands of those who follow — at work, at home, in your community.
Legacy is not an accident. It is a decision.
To honor what was sacred.
To release what was only survival.
To claim what still matters.
This is how a life becomes more than a career, more than a title, more than a season of striving. This is how meaning becomes inheritance.
PROGRAMS BUILD FOR YOU
You’ve carried hard feelings the way you were taught: privately.
Most of the men I work with don’t call it grief.
They just know something feels off.
They are emotionally flat, short-tempered, disconnected, and just done.
You don’t need inspiration.
You need space to sort out what you lost, what still matters, and how to live forward with clarity.
That’s the work.
It’s not therapy.
It’s not self-help.
It’s not a place to talk it to death.
It’s where you come to understand what this weight has made of you — and what you want to do with that now.
"Well, that was not only fascinating, but deeply needed. I will remember this for a long time."
KW, Seattle
"In one call I learned more than I would have ever thought. I laughed, I cried and I transformed. This is truly a gift.
RW, Toronto
"I honestly don't know if I would still be working here if it wasn't for you. "
ED, Calgary
